Rachel has pursued a variety of careers and had many experiences
that led her to become a therapist. From owning medical practices,
including; a pharmacy, medical spas, a surgery center, to having fun
with a couple toy companies, Rachel's life circumstances left her
wanting to better understand herself, others and relationships. She
attended The Life Coach School and became a certified life coach,
and eventually finished her master's degree in Clinical Mental
Health Counseling. She earned her associate's degree from Utah
Valley University, her bachelor's degree from Brigham Young
University and pursued graduate school at the University of
Concordia Irvine, Townsend Institute. She finds counseling to be the
most fulfilling career because she says, "Everyone has their own
story and there is something to be learned from every experience."
She loves to see growth and to learn from others in their journey.
Rachel loves to work with people from all walks of life including a
variety of people from different age groups, cultures, life
experiences and backgrounds. She enjoys working with men and women
who are silently suffering in their difficult relationships, or have
gone through divorce, she works with couples who want to stay
together and improve their relationship, as well as remarried
couples experiencing blended family and step-children dynamics. She
works with adopted and foster children, parents who have struggled
with fertility and the adoption process. She works with parents and
children who struggle with ADHD, learning disabilities, behavioral
issues, defiant personalities and neurodevelopmental problems.
As a Clinical Mental Health Counselor Intern (CMHC-I), Rachel has experience working with borderline and narcissistic personality disorders, and addictive behaviors as well as helping partners struggling with codependent behaviors, including enabling and lack of boundaries in relationships.
I am a believer in self-authoring our lives and becoming our true authentic selves. The quote, "Be yourself. Everyone else is taken." sums up what mental wellness is for me. For me, that means looking at the parts of myself that I want to deny or avoid, self-reflecting and engaging in secure attachments and healthy relationships, help me become the truest version of myself. When we are out of alignment with our authenticity, undesired symptoms will accrue. I try to stay grounded in my relationship with myself, God and others, to get the relational nutrients I need to handle the inevitable storms, shade and sunshine of life. Loving myself means caring for my needs by being vulnerable, connecting with others, being responsible for my thoughts, feelings and actions, having healthy boundaries, and asking safe people and loved ones to help me in my journey along the way. These factors are essential for my overall mental health and happiness.
I love people, and I love to have fun. I love to travel and see new people, cultures, food and experiences. I enjoy nature, the beach, the mountains and everything in between. Hiking, exploring, camping, boating, and skiing and trying new activities. I taught dance, mostly ballet for 25 years and enjoyed teaching kids and adolescents as they grew and developed in their skills. I love to dance and listen to good music. I enjoy learning and reading great books by amazing people who share their knowledge. A fun fact is, I have seven beautiful children, but none of them are biologically mine. I have two adopted children and five stepchildren. Another fun fact is that I was on ABC's Shark Tank for one of my toy companies. I love to spend time with my family and friends and make the most of this wild and crazy ride we are all on together.
"I gravitate toward a more person-centered, humanistic, Gestalt form of psychotherapy that emphasizes self-awareness and personal responsibility, while focusing on the individual's experience in the present moment. Helping people become more aware of their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, to make conscious choices that align with their values. I also see the value in psychodynamic theories that uncover the unconscious processes, early childhood experiences, and interpersonal relationships that affect our personality and behavior. These theories are important for discovering and resolving trauma and looking at the root cause of what drives our behavior. I appreciate a flexible, holistic approach to helping each client with where they are in their journey."
I resonate with family therapies and systems theory which I believe echo Aristotle when he said, "Structure and function lie in nurture." A small tree growing behind a big tree will grow sideways to get light. We all affect each other. Working with the whole family allows us to correct every issues that could be present."